Things that married couple could do and how they could behave to sustain and keep their marriage.

Going in to marriage is however not the problem, but to maintain and sustain the marriage is where some problems lies; hence, there are  responsibilities attached to marriage.

The wife has her role of duty and the husband also has his role of duty as assigned by God, but apart from those sole responsibilities belonging to the man specifically and to the woman specifically too, there are other responsibilities that is needed from both parties if they must keep and sustain their love, union and marriage.

       

 Here are the things married couple could be doing inorder to keep and sustain their love, union and marriage:

1. Don't keep secrets from each other: Don't withhold an information that you know your spouse supposed to know or hear about.

2. Don't always blame your spouse in the public: Irrespective of what the mistake of your spouse is, never blame her in front of people.

3. Don't always criticize the flaws of your spouse: Don't always talk or point out your spouse' flaws or weakpoint. Don't always criticize his or her flaws.

4 Don't always keep malice nor be unforgiven: Don't always keep records of your spouse' misbehavior and offence.

5. Always be soft with your spouse: Always be soft with your spouse, don't always shout at him or her.

6. Let your spouse' demands be your priority: Let the demands of your spouse be a priority over your own, also know that your body is his or her own.

 

7. Don't always bring forth the past: Don't always talk or bring forth past issues whenever things happen, always let go the past.

8. Don't talk to your spouse insultively before your children: Don't always talk to your spouse abusively or even correct your spouse before your children.

9. There should be no faction amongst the children on which of the parent they love: Don't always try to win the heart of your children to yourself and try to turn it against your spouse.

10. There should be no difference in how the two couple's family is treated: There should be no difference in the way you both treat your in-laws, both parents of the couple should be treated equally without partiality.

11. Always create time for your partner: Let not too much engagement deny or deprive you of having time for your spouse.

           

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